do it like dude
So much has changed. I have officially started my new role at work & in a couple of weeks I will be graduating. Just like that, the stone has rolled away for me.
I have been happy. Quiet joy. The joy of the Lord really because there's no other way to explain it.
For this new role, there is so much to learn but I am not complaining at all. My only goal here is to thrive. Elevator guy used to tell me that he is really good at his job & I admired that. I want that for myself. He is out of the picture though because I don't have the patience to teach a guy to be communicative. I decided that the guy has to be already what I am looking for because I honestly do not have the patience to try & bring it out of you. I already did that once & it was time consuming, energy draining, patience thinning & to be quite honest a distraction. Did you guys see that tweet about how men marry : very intentional about who the marry & always someone who will propel them towards their big picture. I want that for myself ( though I almost settled).
I met another guy & we had a wonderful convo. 2 hours of convo in his car outside my building. During the convo he told me that the problem with us girls is that we think every guy we click with we should date. He said to write a list of attributes I am looking for in a man & not to settle for anything less. See the thread? Heaven might be giving me direction. This guy I enjoy talking to but he is not it.
